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Best friend ignores me for other people?
Alright so me and my best friend have been best friends since 3rd grade and we are almost complete oposites which is a good thing because we get different opinions and views and stuff. So first semester we had 6 of 7 classes togther because we picked the same electives. So we drove eachother crazy but got really close at the same time. So i am the more keep to my self and just get through the day kind of person and my friend is the outfoing talks to almost anyone type. So i bet u see how this works i sit at a table wirh my friend while he talks to everybody else and doesnt try to include me he expects for me just to be like him and be good at starting convos so this is really effecting me becuz i try to start convos and he will just but in and then since hes more outfoing the person i just started a convo with will pay attention to him so now i cant even talk to people so anyway why does he do this hes my best friend and is going to be my best man when i get married but it seems like he is making me antisocial and if i try to ignore him he thinks its ok and juat tells me imm antisocial and leaves me alone
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Almost the exact same thing happened to me when I got to middle school. My best friend since 2nd grade (We were exact opposites too) started hanging out with other people who wouldn't even look at me. She ignored me around her other friends, but when it was just me and her, it was like we were best friends again.
Maybe you should try telling your best friend what you're going through. If you're not comfortable saying it to his face, send him an e-mail, message him on FB, text him, etc. If he's really your best friend, he'll understand or at least try to do something to help you. If he carries on without acknowledging you, then maybe it's time to find some other friends to hang out with at school. That's what I had to do with my best friend and we're still pretty close to this day. It won't hurt to make some new friends and you can still be friends with your best friends.
That took forever to type =P Well, hope this helped some! Good luck~
Almost the exact same thing happened to me when I got to middle school. My best friend since 2nd grade (We were exact opposites too) started hanging out with other people who wouldn't even look at me. She ignored me around her other friends, but when it was just me and her, it was like we were best friends again.
Maybe you should try telling your best friend what you're going through. If you're not comfortable saying it to his face, send him an e-mail, message him on FB, text him, etc. If he's really your best friend, he'll understand or at least try to do something to help you. If he carries on without acknowledging you, then maybe it's time to find some other friends to hang out with at school. That's what I had to do with my best friend and we're still pretty close to this day. It won't hurt to make some new friends and you can still be friends with your best friends.
That took forever to type =P Well, hope this helped some! Good luck~
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Sounds like he's getting bored of you. When a friend talks to another without saying a word to you, there's a problem. Try talking And make yourself an interesting and amusing fellow.
Sounds like he's getting bored of you. When a friend talks to another without saying a word to you, there's a problem. Try talking And make yourself an interesting and amusing fellow.
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just talk to him my best friend can leave me out like that too but i know she'd always be there for me no matter what and she doesn't mean too just tell him how you feel.
just talk to him my best friend can leave me out like that too but i know she'd always be there for me no matter what and she doesn't mean too just tell him how you feel.
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Find new friends.=
Find new friends.=
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